I have been practicing retaining sexual energy for almost a month and alchemy with my wife for that same amount of time. I have spilled the cup of Hermes twice now. Once two weeks ago and the second today. Both unintentionally during intercourse. My partner is very helpful but is not on a spiritual path. When it happened she sensed how I felt and said she felt like she was holding me back.
I want to continue to move the energy upwards. To dissolve my egos and to help others. But this is so much change at once. Both for myself and our relationship. I know this is alot of info, but any advice would help.
Thank you
I want to continue to move the energy upwards. To dissolve my egos and to help others. But this is so much change at once. Both for myself and our relationship. I know this is alot of info, but any advice would help.
Thank you
Accepted Answer
Be patient with yourself, since this is a new skill that takes time and practice to master.
Communication with your spouse is also important. Relationships grounded in love and understanding are based in vulnerability, communication, and trust.
Do not stimulate so much fire that you cannot control the energy. Less movement in the beginning is ideal. With time you will train your body to strengthen the fire, to temper and control it, to move when necessary, but without getting close to the threshold into orgasm.
Consider also performing other exercises to balance the energies, such as runes, sacred rites for rejuvenation, mantras, prayers, and pranayama.
Communication with your spouse is also important. Relationships grounded in love and understanding are based in vulnerability, communication, and trust.
Do not stimulate so much fire that you cannot control the energy. Less movement in the beginning is ideal. With time you will train your body to strengthen the fire, to temper and control it, to move when necessary, but without getting close to the threshold into orgasm.
Consider also performing other exercises to balance the energies, such as runes, sacred rites for rejuvenation, mantras, prayers, and pranayama.
For thirty years I sought God. But when I looked carefully I found that in reality God was the seeker and I the sought. -Bayazid al-Bastami
Accepted Answer
Be patient with yourself, since this is a new skill that takes time and practice to master.
Communication with your spouse is also important. Relationships grounded in love and understanding are based in vulnerability, communication, and trust.
Do not stimulate so much fire that you cannot control the energy. Less movement in the beginning is ideal. With time you will train your body to strengthen the fire, to temper and control it, to move when necessary, but without getting close to the threshold into orgasm.
Consider also performing other exercises to balance the energies, such as runes, sacred rites for rejuvenation, mantras, prayers, and pranayama.
Communication with your spouse is also important. Relationships grounded in love and understanding are based in vulnerability, communication, and trust.
Do not stimulate so much fire that you cannot control the energy. Less movement in the beginning is ideal. With time you will train your body to strengthen the fire, to temper and control it, to move when necessary, but without getting close to the threshold into orgasm.
Consider also performing other exercises to balance the energies, such as runes, sacred rites for rejuvenation, mantras, prayers, and pranayama.
For thirty years I sought God. But when I looked carefully I found that in reality God was the seeker and I the sought. -Bayazid al-Bastami
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