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Can a married couple perform sublimation when one of them has obstacles? My wife had a parental forced abortion at 16 and after our sixth child she tied her tubes. We have successfully practiced sublimation for a good of time. We had came across some answers to this question but not since we've came across the Q&A in the link. Be honest, only a straight answer. Master has made it clear for my wife's issues, however I've been successfully defeating Lucifer. We have experienced a maximum of 5 hours, many 1-3 hour sessions, and many practice sessions, once per week. I teach Gnosis, with my wife assistance, to prisoner reentry inmates and lifer's, since 2014, we are now in 3 states. Also, we teach our Insight course to the public and at a senior living facility. which has kabbalah and alchemy as its structure. I share that because we know that the 3 factors are our keys towards liberation. And now our answers have came to its reality since coming across this touchy subject today. As for my wife I'm very unhappy:( after putting in a successful great work thus far. My innermost has shared that she will benefit as for karmic debt but she may have to return with this knowledge. I know my monad experienced this work in my past lives and have returned to cleanup past debts. I'm going to quickly share how we met. While driving in the year September 1989 my future wife and I crossed paths at the intersection. There was no time to make full attraction however after making our turns my clairaudience ear heard a voice that said "turn around" so I immediately adhered. After making the turn where Katherine proceeded I noticed her car parked not far from the intersection. I parked behind her and proceeded to approach the drivers side, as if she was waiting on me. We introduced ourselves and I shared my experience, to my excitement she confirmed that she also heard a voice that said pull over and wait. After a few dates, December 23 1989, I ask Katherine to lets get married of course she didn't hesitate to accept. We planned a 1990 Valentines wedding. We had 6 children pretty early in our marriage. Hopefully this isn't too much. To end this cupid[Eros] experience, we entered in a tell your story on how we met contest for couples matrimony on Valentines day during our tenth year anniversary against 900 plus entries, and behold our story won a 7 day trip to the Pocono's Resort in PA. It made the News Paper and we still own the paper. We just celebrated our 31st year anniversary.
1 year ago
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#25416
Accepted Answer
Hello,

The following quotation is an upcoming addition to our Love and Sex FAQ. While much of it applies to vasectomies and hysterectomies, there is much overlap with tubal ligations as well. Please let us know if you have questions after studying it:
Q: Is it possible to have a Perfect Matrimony and practice sexual transmutation after a vasectomy?

Any damaged or modified organ in the body results in a change in the flow of energy. For example, if you cut your nasal passages, would your breathing be affected? If you cut your esophagus, would eating be affected? Since spiritual development depends upon sexual energy, if the sexual organs are modified, then spiritual development is also affected. The amount of the effect depends upon the extent of the modification.

We recommend against such procedures.

If someone has already had it performed, they can investigate having it reversed. If it is not possible, their only recourse is to appeal to God for assistance.

Of course, someone who has modified, limited, or even lost their sexual function still retains the ability to meditate and work on the ego, and sacrifice on behalf of others in order to help humanity. Great sacrifices and dedication to others well-being, in combination with mystical death, will create enormous benefit for everyone. This is a vitally important work, and can be pursued until a new body is acquired.

As explained in the examples above, transmutation is still possible, albeit limited and more difficult. Because in such a case the sexual energy can no longer move physically throughout the sexual organs, it also cannot be fully harnessed. Therefore, the person will have to work with more focus, patience, and subtlety. The non-physical aspects of the energy can still be utilized, but this requires more skill, attentiveness, and delicacy.

Q: Will a husband's vasectomy have a bad effect on his wife?

She is practicing Tantra with the man she loves. Therefore, they will both benefit from transmutation, since the sexual act will strengthen their marriage and their spiritual lives. Obviously, his condition will result in a limitation, yet he can still do his best. Consider it this way: does someone who had a vasectomy still have interest in sex, and capability to perform the sexual act? If so, then they should do so, in accordance with the guidelines of alchemy. In this way, they can do their best.

Let it be clear: the creation of the solar bodies is not the most important part of the work. Eliminating the ego is the most important part.

Q: I had a vasectomy in the past. Is it still advisable not to orgasm?

Yes, you must still refrain from orgasm. The creative energy is electronic, molecular, and cellular within your body. Therefore, it is not just the physical sperm, but also the hormones, and vital currents of energy which are not physical. Because of this, you can still work with tantrism, you can still work to eliminate your ego, and a great deal of spiritual development is still possible.

Q: If I have a hysterectomy will I still be able to practice sex magic?

You can still practice. Naturally, the more organs are removed, the less potent the practice will be.

Q: I had a full hysterectomy due to cancer. What are the consequences to practicing alchemy and raising my kundalini now that my ovaries are gone?

There are many people who are suffering through this type of karma, and there is no doubt it is difficult. However, do not lose hope. First of all, you are still in your physical body. This itself is a remarkable fact, and should give you courage and will to proceed. Secondly, remember that the physical body is the lowest part of the tree of life, and is impermanent and unreliable, and will eventually be discarded anyhow so that you can receive a new one. This is a normal process and does not impede our work towards the light.

Nevertheless, since your ovaries have been removed, there will be an unmistakable change in the functionality of sexual energy. Fortunately, the vital aspect is still there. People who lose an arm or a leg still feel the limb is there because the vital aspect is there; the same is true of the ovaries. The physical part may be removed, but the vital part remains in place. Therefore, you should continue practicing as before. Pranayama harnesses prana, which is not physical.

Samael Aun Weor: The sexual energy is not only in the ovules, but also in all of the female sexual system.

Q: Are hysterectomies advisable?

In some cases a hysterectomy is necessary to preserve health and life; this is a case by case situation, like anything else. The general guideline is that we use what is useful; sometimes conventional medicine offers methods that can help us preserve our lives so we can continue working. That said, the best source of medical advice must come from your own innermost, acquired through meditation and dream yoga. Healing is always a matter of karma.

Everyone is guilty of mistakes and crimes. The remedy is to do good deeds to pay the debts. For example, if one causes pain, then one must heal the injured. If one has caused hunger, one must feed the starving. So in this case, find some way to help educate those who are ignorant about upright sexuality. This can be directly, by teaching, or indirectly, by supporting those who teach. It could also be by volunteering someplace appropriate to your situation, in which you can work face to face with those who need help.

Q: What can I do as a woman whose sexual organs are damaged, whether through a hysterectomy or tubal ligation?

The only solution to our suffering is to harness all the power we have available inside of us, and direct it towards creating benefit for ourselves and others. No matter how terrible our suffering and mistakes have been in the past, or how limited our circumstances in the present, since we are still alive there is a chance to turn everything around and move in a better direction. The key to this is to genuinely understand what is beneficial behavior and what is harmful. The most important aspect of this is sexual, since sexual behavior accesses the greatest power within us.

It is stated in these teachings that a superior power (law) will make an inferior power (law) inert. By adopting positive, beneficial behaviors, we can eliminate the harmful influences within us and around us. In synthesis, no matter how bad you may have been, become very good now, and your previous actions can be forgiven or paid.

The reality is that all of us have sexual dysfunction and damage. Physically speaking, the most important physical element needed for our redemption is proper functioning of the sexual energy, i.e. the glands should be functional and capable of receiving and transmitting sexual energy in the cycle that we normally experience. Many men and women have varying degrees of damage to their organs, yet make progress on the path.

Q: Can women transmute after reaching menopause?

Menopause is normal and is no impediment to working on oneself. In fact, with maturity and the changes that accompany it, one is often better suited to comprehend things, at least as compared with the how hard it is during youth.

For thirty years I sought God. But when I looked carefully I found that in reality God was the seeker and I the sought. -Bayazid al-Bastami

We are looking into tubal reversal, however we inquired with a doctor that performs them and the verdict was 62 is too old, no menstrual periods, need operations records of the tubal tie procedure (hospitals destroys records after 10 years), cesarean c sections 1-3x are questionable, she had 1. We need answers if the rites and Mother can fix this? Am I sublimating successfully during our 1-3 hour sessions, I have mastered to not spill hermes glass? since Master stated that altering the procreation organs is not a good emvironment for regenerating the seed in the spinal column womb. Wife is asking why did our monads match us up, then awaken to gnosis and the liberation process? As stated in part 1, don't hold back we are both 100% accepting the scientific answer.
1 year ago
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#25416
Accepted Answer
Hello,

The following quotation is an upcoming addition to our Love and Sex FAQ. While much of it applies to vasectomies and hysterectomies, there is much overlap with tubal ligations as well. Please let us know if you have questions after studying it:
Q: Is it possible to have a Perfect Matrimony and practice sexual transmutation after a vasectomy?

Any damaged or modified organ in the body results in a change in the flow of energy. For example, if you cut your nasal passages, would your breathing be affected? If you cut your esophagus, would eating be affected? Since spiritual development depends upon sexual energy, if the sexual organs are modified, then spiritual development is also affected. The amount of the effect depends upon the extent of the modification.

We recommend against such procedures.

If someone has already had it performed, they can investigate having it reversed. If it is not possible, their only recourse is to appeal to God for assistance.

Of course, someone who has modified, limited, or even lost their sexual function still retains the ability to meditate and work on the ego, and sacrifice on behalf of others in order to help humanity. Great sacrifices and dedication to others well-being, in combination with mystical death, will create enormous benefit for everyone. This is a vitally important work, and can be pursued until a new body is acquired.

As explained in the examples above, transmutation is still possible, albeit limited and more difficult. Because in such a case the sexual energy can no longer move physically throughout the sexual organs, it also cannot be fully harnessed. Therefore, the person will have to work with more focus, patience, and subtlety. The non-physical aspects of the energy can still be utilized, but this requires more skill, attentiveness, and delicacy.

Q: Will a husband's vasectomy have a bad effect on his wife?

She is practicing Tantra with the man she loves. Therefore, they will both benefit from transmutation, since the sexual act will strengthen their marriage and their spiritual lives. Obviously, his condition will result in a limitation, yet he can still do his best. Consider it this way: does someone who had a vasectomy still have interest in sex, and capability to perform the sexual act? If so, then they should do so, in accordance with the guidelines of alchemy. In this way, they can do their best.

Let it be clear: the creation of the solar bodies is not the most important part of the work. Eliminating the ego is the most important part.

Q: I had a vasectomy in the past. Is it still advisable not to orgasm?

Yes, you must still refrain from orgasm. The creative energy is electronic, molecular, and cellular within your body. Therefore, it is not just the physical sperm, but also the hormones, and vital currents of energy which are not physical. Because of this, you can still work with tantrism, you can still work to eliminate your ego, and a great deal of spiritual development is still possible.

Q: If I have a hysterectomy will I still be able to practice sex magic?

You can still practice. Naturally, the more organs are removed, the less potent the practice will be.

Q: I had a full hysterectomy due to cancer. What are the consequences to practicing alchemy and raising my kundalini now that my ovaries are gone?

There are many people who are suffering through this type of karma, and there is no doubt it is difficult. However, do not lose hope. First of all, you are still in your physical body. This itself is a remarkable fact, and should give you courage and will to proceed. Secondly, remember that the physical body is the lowest part of the tree of life, and is impermanent and unreliable, and will eventually be discarded anyhow so that you can receive a new one. This is a normal process and does not impede our work towards the light.

Nevertheless, since your ovaries have been removed, there will be an unmistakable change in the functionality of sexual energy. Fortunately, the vital aspect is still there. People who lose an arm or a leg still feel the limb is there because the vital aspect is there; the same is true of the ovaries. The physical part may be removed, but the vital part remains in place. Therefore, you should continue practicing as before. Pranayama harnesses prana, which is not physical.

Samael Aun Weor: The sexual energy is not only in the ovules, but also in all of the female sexual system.

Q: Are hysterectomies advisable?

In some cases a hysterectomy is necessary to preserve health and life; this is a case by case situation, like anything else. The general guideline is that we use what is useful; sometimes conventional medicine offers methods that can help us preserve our lives so we can continue working. That said, the best source of medical advice must come from your own innermost, acquired through meditation and dream yoga. Healing is always a matter of karma.

Everyone is guilty of mistakes and crimes. The remedy is to do good deeds to pay the debts. For example, if one causes pain, then one must heal the injured. If one has caused hunger, one must feed the starving. So in this case, find some way to help educate those who are ignorant about upright sexuality. This can be directly, by teaching, or indirectly, by supporting those who teach. It could also be by volunteering someplace appropriate to your situation, in which you can work face to face with those who need help.

Q: What can I do as a woman whose sexual organs are damaged, whether through a hysterectomy or tubal ligation?

The only solution to our suffering is to harness all the power we have available inside of us, and direct it towards creating benefit for ourselves and others. No matter how terrible our suffering and mistakes have been in the past, or how limited our circumstances in the present, since we are still alive there is a chance to turn everything around and move in a better direction. The key to this is to genuinely understand what is beneficial behavior and what is harmful. The most important aspect of this is sexual, since sexual behavior accesses the greatest power within us.

It is stated in these teachings that a superior power (law) will make an inferior power (law) inert. By adopting positive, beneficial behaviors, we can eliminate the harmful influences within us and around us. In synthesis, no matter how bad you may have been, become very good now, and your previous actions can be forgiven or paid.

The reality is that all of us have sexual dysfunction and damage. Physically speaking, the most important physical element needed for our redemption is proper functioning of the sexual energy, i.e. the glands should be functional and capable of receiving and transmitting sexual energy in the cycle that we normally experience. Many men and women have varying degrees of damage to their organs, yet make progress on the path.

Q: Can women transmute after reaching menopause?

Menopause is normal and is no impediment to working on oneself. In fact, with maturity and the changes that accompany it, one is often better suited to comprehend things, at least as compared with the how hard it is during youth.

For thirty years I sought God. But when I looked carefully I found that in reality God was the seeker and I the sought. -Bayazid al-Bastami

Benedictus selected the reply #25416 as the answer for this post — 1 year ago
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Sacred rites of rejuvenation can perform marvelous healing, but this always occurs in accordance with the degree of faith and effort we out into practicing this ritual.

This is not an issue you can resolve by going on a forum. You need to travel to the Temple of Alden internally to receive guidance from your Innermost God.

The masters of medicine understand your karma and the karma of your wife. Therefore, they can provide tremendous insights and remedies to this problem, as well as your spiritual situation, the will of your Monads, etc.

For thirty years I sought God. But when I looked carefully I found that in reality God was the seeker and I the sought. -Bayazid al-Bastami

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