Hello instructors, forgive me if this seems like a petty question. I will make it short as usual.
I read the article on how to find a Gnostic spouse, and I also listened to Alexis's advice about how ones spouse should match them on the tree of life. This is all understood but, I seem to have this unceasing longing to meet a person with fairly distinct appearance traits. Thus, being the heavily materialistic Capricorn that I am, the malkuth aspect (appearance traits) of this dream woman/spouse is very strong in my interest.
Considering that infatuation and falling in love is a form of fanaticism, does the Gnostic simply settle for pretty much anyone who matches them on the tree of life? A "so so" partner? Or does the Gnostic who is fascinated with malkuth (appearance traits) strive to find this more ideal person who has excellent malkuth as well as the other levels?