Will meditate on this. Obviously somebody is still having enough ego trouble that they think my question isn't worth answering and that they're too good to answer such questions.

An apology is in order here. I was wrong for such an outburst. As a beginner- ego would be something I'm struggling with- not to make excuses. There is no excuse. I just felt I haven't been taken seriously. Please accept my apology- I'm sorry. Remember- beginners ask dumb sounding questions.. because.. we don't' know what we don't know.

You are facing an ordeal. No one can advise you but your heart.

Study the Arcanum Six.

Thank you. This was merely a hypothetical. I'm not married and not currently looking; however, I want to eventually and I know that I really must get married. Finding the right person is key. Maybe I won't be faced with this situation.

I ask for advice and people vote down my comments. Yeah- that's ego talking and I must work on that I admit it- so I'm being a jerk. From now on- any intimate/ private questions that aren't general are going to be e-mailed. I don't like this.

And I will study Arcanum Six- thank you :-)