An apology is in order here. I was wrong for such an outburst. As a beginner- ego would be something I'm struggling with- not to make excuses. There is no excuse. I just felt I haven't been taken seriously. Please accept my apology- I'm sorry. Remember- beginners ask dumb sounding questions.. because.. we don't' know what we don't know.
Thank you. This was merely a hypothetical. I'm not married and not currently looking; however, I want to eventually and I know that I really must get married. Finding the right person is key. Maybe I won't be faced with this situation.
I ask for advice and people vote down my comments. Yeah- that's ego talking and I must work on that I admit it- so I'm being a jerk. From now on- any intimate/ private questions that aren't general are going to be e-mailed. I don't like this.