My question involves a relationship that just ended that I was a part of. This was before I got involved with the gnostic teachings and the ending of it lead me to the gnostic teachings. I feel that we are twin souls though one of the biggest issues between us was the fact that she had a child from a previous relationship. I felt like I couldn't trust her because she was still allied to her previous relationship, had a flame for him still and I always felt like I was second to her child. She even said to me the one day that she didn't need to have a child with me as she already had a child with her previous husband. She ended up falling pregnant with our child and I realised I was being manipulated to raise her existing child as her previous husband wasn't supporting her properly and she was in financial difficulty - then when I didn't want to give her a large sum of money each month she wanted to abort the child.
So if sexuality is about soul union, how do you deal with somebody who is still sexuality connected to her previous spouse and has a child with him. They still have energy cords connecting them and they're still essentially functioning like a married couple. I also feel like it isn't possible to experience true faithfulness in the relationship because of it.