Do not seek for the merger of souls. Seek instead for the purification of your own.
You cannot change anyone but yourself. So, change.
Your karma is in play because of defects in your mind. If you eliminate those defects, the karma disappears. Thus, eliminate the defects from which the karma springs.
To do this, you must study how the circumstances affect your mind. Study those effects, and find the defects that are engaged there. Destroy them, and the problem will be solved immediately. There is no other solution to our problems. As long as the defects remain in your mind, the problems will repeat and worsen, even from life to life.
Each psychic aggregate within ourselves is the living personification of a psychological defect.
It is unquestionable that when a psychological defect is disintegrated, it is replaced with a virtue, power, force or law, which crystallizes within our human personality. This is how we crystallize the Soul little by little. Obviously, even the physical body must be converted into Soul.
Therefore, the Soul is the whole assembly of forces and spiritual powers that must be crystallized within ourselves.
This is how the Soul enters this world. This is how the Souls arrive to the Earth.
However, if the water does not boil at one hundred degrees, that which must be crystallized does not crystallize, and that which must be eliminated is not eliminated.
Similarly, we affirm that we must pass through great emotional crises before attaining the disintegration of any psychic aggregate.
It is not enough to comprehend a defect. It is necessary to eliminate it.
It is urgent to know how to meditate, in order to comprehend any psychic aggregate, or in other words, any psychological defect.
It is indispensable to know how to work with all our heart and with all our soul, if we want the elimination to occur.
When we beseech Stella Maris, the Virgin of the Sea, we are assisted.
The Divine Mother Kundalini, the igneous serpent of our magical powers, can and must eliminate the psychic aggregates. - The Gnostic Bible, The Pistis Sophia Unveiled