You say, “from what i've heard, most everything in your belief system is based on sex, i understand that you preach neither man or woman should reach the state of an orgasm.”
Jesus answered, Truly, truly, I say to you, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God.
That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.
Marvel not that I said to you, You must be born again.
The (Spirit or) wind blows where it wants (within your body), and you hear the sound thereof, but can not tell from where it comes, and where it goes: so is every one that is born of the Spirit.– John 3: 5-8
You say, “but i was wondering about your perspective on oral sex and manual stimulation as a means of foreplay.
Well, observe cats, dogs and all mammals, and you will see that all of them do oral sex and all kind of stimulation as a means of foreplay. So, “That which is born of the flesh is flesh”, in other words, all of that is animal lust, animal desire, NOT HUMAN!
Yet, “That which is born of the Spirit is Spirit” When one is being born of the Spirit, one understands that in the beginning "the Spirit of God moves upon the face of the (sexual) waters. And God said, Let there be light: and there was light." - Genesis 1: 2, 3
You say, "I am allowed to do anything (in the flesh)"--but not everything is good for you. You say, "I am allowed to do anything (as animal)"--but not everything is beneficial. 1 Corinthians 10: 23
my wife says she thinks it is not permitted, but i am very curious and would greatly appreciate your response.
Adam's wife also said that it is not permitted: “But of the fruit of the tree which is in the midst of the garden, God hath said, Ye shall not eat of it (as an animal), neither shall ye touch it (as a beast), lest ye die (the second death).” Genesis 3: 3
And no (lustful) man has ascended up to heaven, but he (the Spirit) that came down from heaven, even the Son of man (the Son of chastity) which is in heaven. - John 3: 13
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