In discovering a psychological defect of a lust enticing imagery in my mind I immediately meditated on the root of this defect. I discovered that the image was rooted in a desire for intimacy and also that this image was looking to feed itself and steal consciousness. I therefore say it was rooted in idol worship as it was looking to be worshipped. It was also rooted in abuse of imagination because it is not real and adds a lot of spice to the female form and foggy the reality of intimacy. Once comprehending this similar ideas still surface. I cannot eliminate properly these things as of being single. Pure magnetism is different from lust and I do want a spouse in a pure way. I don't want to repress but I don't want to be bothered by these images either. What to do?