Focus on developing yourself. Do not worry about women. If you worry about women, you will waste a lot of energy. Your Innermost Being knows what you need, and will provide when you need it. If your Innermost needs you to be married, you will not be able to avoid it. So, focus yourself on changing. Let your Being manage your circumstances.
“Nothing is easier than self-deceit. For what each man wishes, that he also believes.” —Demosthenes
"Do not worry; cultivate the habit of being happy." —Samael Aun Weor