It depends who is massaging you: your marital partner whom you love, or a complete stranger who fornicates?
Massages should be performed between couples, not strangers, since this act mixes vital magnetism that may be detrimental to a chaste disciple when encountering numerous "Reiki" practitioners or missuses who know nothing of spiritual purity.
What is worse is that such persons know how to work with energy, but in a diabolic way. This is extremely common.
Desire is ego. Consciousness is peace, happiness, fulfillment, enjoyment, contentment, and love. To know the difference between desire and consciousness, one must self-observe, transmute, and meditate.
For thirty years I sought God. But when I looked carefully I found that in reality God was the seeker and I the sought. -Bayazid al-Bastami