Monday, 10 November 2014
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In this life, I have been a very great fornicator with a multitude of women, acting on impulse without awareness, giving in to my inner behemoth. I understand from the teachings that when one is sexually connected with a woman, there is a transference of ego, a flow of poison that corrupts both parties.

Have I taken on the egos of all the women I've known? Have I taken on the egos of all the men they have previously known? This is my understanding. My real question is, how great of a karma is such a thing? How greatly has my personal Satan been strengthened? How greatly has promiscuity altered my psyche? To what degree does their ego mix with my own? And finally, the weight of these actions feels heavy on me. Any words of encouragement or advice as I continue to walk?

Thank you, brothers, for your wisdom.
7 years ago
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#8102
Accepted Answer
When you enter the psychological environment of another person, you are influenced by it. For example, if you spend time with people who drink, smoke, curse, and talk about negative things, you will be tempted to join in all of their behaviors. Naturally, if you already have weaknesses in those areas, you will be more susceptible.

Sexual union is also a joining of psychological environments, but the influences are far stronger and deeper. Observe how after being married for many years a man and woman even look alike. They talk alike, walk alike, think alike. They have truly "merged" not only physically but psychically. This demonstrates the psychological aspect of sex.

When you sexually unite with a person, there is a permanent and irreversible bond created because there is an atomic exchange, a merging of atomic substances. The bodies, hearts, and minds are united atomically. They influence each other very deeply.

So, when you sexually unite with a person, there is an exchange of psychological influences. Each sexual act of that couple reinforces the influences.

Thus, the interests, tastes, tendencies of each person are exposed to the other. So, similar to spending time with friends, but far, far deeper. Afterwards, you have a whole new set of psychological influences in your mindstream. If before you had no interest in alcohol, you now have it. That is not an "ego," but a tempting influence, that if followed, will create egos and karma.

Therefore, if you have had many sexual encounters, you have absorbed many psychological influences, and if you have acted on them, then you have created egos and karma through your own actions.

It is impossible to exchange "egos" or "karma," because those are made by our own hands.

Your karma is the result of your previous actions. You cannot be rewarded or punished for the actions of another. Karma is exact. It corresponds to your own actions.

Similarly, your egos are "karmic," because you made them. An ego is a psychological entity that traps your own consciousness. You cannot have the consciousness of another person trapped inside of you. Each ego or defect belongs only to the one who made it.

When people say they absorb karma or egos, they are simplifying the reality of the process.

Therefore, do not be casual with sex. Sex is a incredible responsibility, and the gateway to great power.

To redeem past mistakes, meditate every day on how to change your behaviors. Analyze yourself, discard harmful behaviors, and adopt beneficial ones. Serve others. Become pure, simple, kind.

"Do not worry; cultivate the habit of being happy." - Samael Aun Weor

7 years ago
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#8102
Accepted Answer
When you enter the psychological environment of another person, you are influenced by it. For example, if you spend time with people who drink, smoke, curse, and talk about negative things, you will be tempted to join in all of their behaviors. Naturally, if you already have weaknesses in those areas, you will be more susceptible.

Sexual union is also a joining of psychological environments, but the influences are far stronger and deeper. Observe how after being married for many years a man and woman even look alike. They talk alike, walk alike, think alike. They have truly "merged" not only physically but psychically. This demonstrates the psychological aspect of sex.

When you sexually unite with a person, there is a permanent and irreversible bond created because there is an atomic exchange, a merging of atomic substances. The bodies, hearts, and minds are united atomically. They influence each other very deeply.

So, when you sexually unite with a person, there is an exchange of psychological influences. Each sexual act of that couple reinforces the influences.

Thus, the interests, tastes, tendencies of each person are exposed to the other. So, similar to spending time with friends, but far, far deeper. Afterwards, you have a whole new set of psychological influences in your mindstream. If before you had no interest in alcohol, you now have it. That is not an "ego," but a tempting influence, that if followed, will create egos and karma.

Therefore, if you have had many sexual encounters, you have absorbed many psychological influences, and if you have acted on them, then you have created egos and karma through your own actions.

It is impossible to exchange "egos" or "karma," because those are made by our own hands.

Your karma is the result of your previous actions. You cannot be rewarded or punished for the actions of another. Karma is exact. It corresponds to your own actions.

Similarly, your egos are "karmic," because you made them. An ego is a psychological entity that traps your own consciousness. You cannot have the consciousness of another person trapped inside of you. Each ego or defect belongs only to the one who made it.

When people say they absorb karma or egos, they are simplifying the reality of the process.

Therefore, do not be casual with sex. Sex is a incredible responsibility, and the gateway to great power.

To redeem past mistakes, meditate every day on how to change your behaviors. Analyze yourself, discard harmful behaviors, and adopt beneficial ones. Serve others. Become pure, simple, kind.

"Do not worry; cultivate the habit of being happy." - Samael Aun Weor

7 years ago
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#8108
Ah, I understand better, now. Thank you for your words.
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