There are people who practice Gnosis in secret, and do not impose any spirituality on their spouse, or expect any spirituality from them. This is a form of sacrifice, and an expression of love and respect for the spouse. Personally, I find this to be even more beautiful than a couple who is in agreement in every way. It is not hard to love someone who agrees with you. But to love someone who disagrees with you, even mocks you — that is not easy, but with real love, conscious love, it is possible, and quite beautiful to see.
Love has its most beautiful expression in sacrifice for the beloved.
There are many couples who love each other in spite of differing views. It is possible to love each other, and allow one another opposing points of view. Just as we want to be respected for our views, we have to offer the same respect to others.
Transform that situation as you would with any ordeal: discover your shortcomings, and replace them with virtuous behaviors. For example, if you feel impatient, find out what in you feels that, and learn instead to be patient. If you want to be understood, offer understanding to others. If you want to be accepted, offer acceptance to others. In this manner, we empower the consciousness, and cut off harmful ways of thinking, feeling, and acting.
Most of all, find what is causing the conflict in yourself, and comprehend that. It is not really about him: it is about a conflict between the reality of your situation and desires in your mind.
"Do not worry; cultivate the habit of being happy." - Samael Aun Weor