The natural function of the body is to transmute the sexual energy. The reason it does not is because it has been influenced by lust, which is an unnatural interference.
The cause of any spill is lust. If lust were not present, the body would not lose the energy.
Therefore, the solution here is more awareness and more meditation. It is necessary to expand the consciousness more and more so that we become capable of seeing how lust is still active in the hidden — and enormous — areas of our psychology. We are all very asleep and unaware of the depths of our minds, in which many submerged elements are abusing our energies.
Lust can be very subtle and clever. Refine your self-observation, retrospection, and meditation. Look closer for details. Beg your Divine Mother to help you find the cause of the problem.
You can do it!
“Nothing is easier than self-deceit. For what each man wishes, that he also believes.” —Demosthenes
"Do not worry; cultivate the habit of being happy." —Samael Aun Weor