First of all, this is a wonderful website. I thank all of those who contribute, and have contributed, to it.
On to my questions:
How does one accomplish not resisting what the ego is doing while also not identifying with the effects?
For example there is a lustful thought in my head, that then turns into an emotion, that then turns into some sort of action. All the while I see this happening as it is happening but don't resist. Isn't the fact that the ego has reached the level of action mean that I have identified with it? Does ego reaching the level of action, or the level of emotion mean that I've already identified with it?
What does not resisting and simultaneously not identifying with ego look like?
If the ego has influence on us is this an indication that we have already identified with it?
For example, someone slaps me in the face. I have the thought of "How dare you." This quickly turns to anger and I respond by some negative action. Isn't letting the ego have its way with me non-resistance? Then again not identifying with ego would be seeing the thought but resisting the emotion, and if resisting the emotion of anger failed then resisting taking action would be the next line of non-identification.
I hope you can make sense of this post as it is clear, even to myself, that I am confused.
Please help if you can.
-Miguel