What are good passages to study, of any book, to understand, for those whom are still "young" in the path, those who are sincerely starting to practice pranayama, and still have yet to find a spouse?
I find it hard to understand most of the books I have come across, as it seems like it is symbolically written mostly about the mountains, and initiations of the major mysteries, or practices that are much too advanced for the average person to consider.. But very few things I can find written about the minor mysteries, and initiations of the probative path.
Is the idea that these initiations come on their own? Or should one be invoking and asking for these initiations whenever we by-chance discover we are out of the physical body in a dream lucidly for example?