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I'm a teen and I know that girlfriends are not allowed in the eye of our Lord. But how do I know what true love is, if I've never felt it? How do I know whether to go for it or not? Am I only allowed to "pick", by pick I mean experience, one woman and if that doesn't work out do I merely give up? I know experience is the biggest part of life. But how do I know what do in these situations without experience?
9 years ago
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#3498
Accepted Answer
Against the Lord to have a girlfriend? Have you heard of The Perfect Matrimony?

Teenagers should not be engaging in sexual intercourse, since it is first necessary for adolescents to fully mature within their body and soul in accordance with planetary and psycho-sexual influences.

However, to have a girlfriend is not a crime. It is natural to feel attraction towards the opposite sex and to have a relationship in adolescence. What is necessary is to be educated in relation with upright sexuality and to be prepared for the alchemical work at an appropriate age, particularly in relation with the solar influence. This demands tremendous discipline, understanding and self-control, since more often than naught, teenagers engage in degenerated practices such as masturbation or hopelessly engage in fornication (sexual intercourse with orgasm) simply because they have not been taught any better.

The following information might help orient you in relation with this delicate subject:

Planetary Influences

The human being enters the maternal womb as a mere germinating seed to develop and evolve. After nine months, the same seed comes into existence more developed, but still not completely developed.

During the first seven years of childhood, we live under the lunar influence. We then enjoy the happiness of the home, unless some negative Karma harms these first years of our life. Yet, the seed is still not completely developed, it is still in the process of development.

The fact that a germinating seed has been born, that a child came into existence somewhat more developed, does not mean that this seed, this child, has finished its development.

During the first seven years of our existence, there becomes manifested in our organism, in the males, the first testicular layer that permits them to exist, and as to females, their ovaries produce certain cells, certain principles, that vitally sustain them.

Later, that seed, continuing its process of development, enters under the influence of Mercury. Then the child goes to school, studies, learns, plays, etc. The child can no longer remain at home at all times. Mercury moves him, agitates him, and makes him restless. The second testicular layer produces in the male particular cells that come to specify and to completely define his sex. The female’s ovaries produce certain cells, certain principles, that come to specify and to completely define her sex.

In our development between fourteen and twenty-one years of age, we pass under the influence of Venus. It is stated that this is the age of falling in love. Men and women begin to experience sexual restlessness, because the sexual glands become activated. The third testicular zone in the male develops and produces sperm, but the latter are still not sufficiently mature, because the male who is between fourteen and twenty-one years of age has not completed his process of development. The seed has not concluded its process of development.

Therefore, it is very serious that a seed, which has not finished its natural process of development, enters into the field of sexual commerce. Undoubtedly, sexual intercourse is not advisable for seeds that have not yet completed their development..

[...]

...Development, in itself and by itself, concludes at the age of twenty-one. That is when adulthood really begins, the “responsible age” as it has already been called.

It is between twenty-one and forty-two years of age that we have to conquer our place under the Sun. Our vocation, whatever we are to be, remains forever decided.

-Samael Aun Weor


Therefore, twenty-one is the appropriate age where a couple can begin practicing Sexual Magic. However, adolescents, with the wise guidance of parents, can begin to prepare for the Great Work of the Father by cultivating spiritual discipline such as meditation and profound study of the teachings. Guided by their Innermost and a solid education in the mysteries, a young couple can prepare for the Perfect Matrimony.

True love can only be known with the awakening of the consciousness. Study The Perfect Matrimony. Meditate and reflect on its contents, since it answers this question with greater depth than can be answered on a forum.

Joyful in hope, suffering in tribulation, be thou constant in thy prayer.

Benedictis, qui venit in nomine Domini. Osanna in excelsis.

"Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord. Hosanna in the highest!"

9 years ago
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#3498
Accepted Answer
Against the Lord to have a girlfriend? Have you heard of The Perfect Matrimony?

Teenagers should not be engaging in sexual intercourse, since it is first necessary for adolescents to fully mature within their body and soul in accordance with planetary and psycho-sexual influences.

However, to have a girlfriend is not a crime. It is natural to feel attraction towards the opposite sex and to have a relationship in adolescence. What is necessary is to be educated in relation with upright sexuality and to be prepared for the alchemical work at an appropriate age, particularly in relation with the solar influence. This demands tremendous discipline, understanding and self-control, since more often than naught, teenagers engage in degenerated practices such as masturbation or hopelessly engage in fornication (sexual intercourse with orgasm) simply because they have not been taught any better.

The following information might help orient you in relation with this delicate subject:

Planetary Influences

The human being enters the maternal womb as a mere germinating seed to develop and evolve. After nine months, the same seed comes into existence more developed, but still not completely developed.

During the first seven years of childhood, we live under the lunar influence. We then enjoy the happiness of the home, unless some negative Karma harms these first years of our life. Yet, the seed is still not completely developed, it is still in the process of development.

The fact that a germinating seed has been born, that a child came into existence somewhat more developed, does not mean that this seed, this child, has finished its development.

During the first seven years of our existence, there becomes manifested in our organism, in the males, the first testicular layer that permits them to exist, and as to females, their ovaries produce certain cells, certain principles, that vitally sustain them.

Later, that seed, continuing its process of development, enters under the influence of Mercury. Then the child goes to school, studies, learns, plays, etc. The child can no longer remain at home at all times. Mercury moves him, agitates him, and makes him restless. The second testicular layer produces in the male particular cells that come to specify and to completely define his sex. The female’s ovaries produce certain cells, certain principles, that come to specify and to completely define her sex.

In our development between fourteen and twenty-one years of age, we pass under the influence of Venus. It is stated that this is the age of falling in love. Men and women begin to experience sexual restlessness, because the sexual glands become activated. The third testicular zone in the male develops and produces sperm, but the latter are still not sufficiently mature, because the male who is between fourteen and twenty-one years of age has not completed his process of development. The seed has not concluded its process of development.

Therefore, it is very serious that a seed, which has not finished its natural process of development, enters into the field of sexual commerce. Undoubtedly, sexual intercourse is not advisable for seeds that have not yet completed their development..

[...]

...Development, in itself and by itself, concludes at the age of twenty-one. That is when adulthood really begins, the “responsible age” as it has already been called.

It is between twenty-one and forty-two years of age that we have to conquer our place under the Sun. Our vocation, whatever we are to be, remains forever decided.

-Samael Aun Weor


Therefore, twenty-one is the appropriate age where a couple can begin practicing Sexual Magic. However, adolescents, with the wise guidance of parents, can begin to prepare for the Great Work of the Father by cultivating spiritual discipline such as meditation and profound study of the teachings. Guided by their Innermost and a solid education in the mysteries, a young couple can prepare for the Perfect Matrimony.

True love can only be known with the awakening of the consciousness. Study The Perfect Matrimony. Meditate and reflect on its contents, since it answers this question with greater depth than can be answered on a forum.

Joyful in hope, suffering in tribulation, be thou constant in thy prayer.

Benedictis, qui venit in nomine Domini. Osanna in excelsis.

"Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord. Hosanna in the highest!"

9 years ago
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#3500
Thank you so much, I will study this further but this has definitely cleared up a lot. :)
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