I understand this is a very basic question, however i havent found an answer yet so it seems worth asking.
I would like to lay out my situation in hopes that it will help in understanding what i am asking for.
My wife (of 11 yrs) and I have just recently begun practicing. We have not had any issues retaining the energy. We do however worry about transmutaing the energy.We dont have any issue with the sex act, we simply are not very confident from that point on. Is there any particular practice that any of the instructors here really felt helped them as beginners, or did any of you have a moment where transmutation felt very clear all of a sudden?
A second question if I may?
What are the best resources for finding others that practice? In particular we would like to experience something like your lectures. Are there local groups that do that kinda thing? If there are how would we find them or approach them?
I would like to lay out my situation in hopes that it will help in understanding what i am asking for.
My wife (of 11 yrs) and I have just recently begun practicing. We have not had any issues retaining the energy. We do however worry about transmutaing the energy.We dont have any issue with the sex act, we simply are not very confident from that point on. Is there any particular practice that any of the instructors here really felt helped them as beginners, or did any of you have a moment where transmutation felt very clear all of a sudden?
A second question if I may?
What are the best resources for finding others that practice? In particular we would like to experience something like your lectures. Are there local groups that do that kinda thing? If there are how would we find them or approach them?