Your body generates sexual energy continually, as it transforms incoming energy. The question is: where is that energy going? If you are doing transmutation exercises every day, then your willpower and attention in that practice send the energy where you direct it. If you are praying, begging for that energy to be used wisely, it will be. Some people do practices but think of mundane or distracting things, and that energy is thereby not directed well.

Those who do their practices consciously and with prayer deliver the energy to their Divine Mother, who uses the energy for the most important need. Sometimes that is for healing, for strength, for elimination of ego, or other purposes.

I suggest that you investigate your own question: are you missing your sexual desire, and if so, why? Who in you misses it? Who in you needs it? For what purpose?

No matter what you case may be, everything changes, constantly. Sexual energy is the root force of every living being. Without it, we cannot be alive. So, whatever the level and flow of our energy, we need to remember our Innermost Divine, and use every ounce of our energy wisely.