Dear sir i need your help,
I loved a girl in my office, she liked me too i really cared for her i change myself in so many ways to be with her, even accepted her vices of smoking and started smoking myself, knowing the fact being a in gnosis its against my vows and ethics i lowered myself in value, i dont understand what happened to me when i am around her, sometimes i feel like its an bad recurrence but still i love her alot. Now she is getting married to someone else next week who is more rich this is the only reason because i dont earn huge so she cannot accept me. Everyday i have to see her, she sit next to me and my heart suffer in terrible pain. I dont know how to come out of this feeling, i pray and practice i feel better than again when i am around that pain and hurt is there.
I meditated alot to understand, i feel the pain is because of the attachment and self pity what am i gonno do now, i am left alone after all these years.
Pleas tell me what to do, how to go about and free from this circumstance.
Many thanks for reading this.
I loved a girl in my office, she liked me too i really cared for her i change myself in so many ways to be with her, even accepted her vices of smoking and started smoking myself, knowing the fact being a in gnosis its against my vows and ethics i lowered myself in value, i dont understand what happened to me when i am around her, sometimes i feel like its an bad recurrence but still i love her alot. Now she is getting married to someone else next week who is more rich this is the only reason because i dont earn huge so she cannot accept me. Everyday i have to see her, she sit next to me and my heart suffer in terrible pain. I dont know how to come out of this feeling, i pray and practice i feel better than again when i am around that pain and hurt is there.
I meditated alot to understand, i feel the pain is because of the attachment and self pity what am i gonno do now, i am left alone after all these years.
Pleas tell me what to do, how to go about and free from this circumstance.
Many thanks for reading this.
Accepted Answer
You have a wonderful opportunity to observe the egos hurt by this event. Do not waste it by being identified with them. Meditate as much as you can on the many subjective qualities of those egos, and eliminate them so you do not have to suffer this way again.
"...if we take advantage of the critical moments, of the more unpleasant situations, the most adverse instances, we shall then discover, if we are alert, our outstanding defects, the “I’s” that we must urgently disintegrate."
"...if we take advantage of the critical moments, of the more unpleasant situations, the most adverse instances, we shall then discover, if we are alert, our outstanding defects, the “I’s” that we must urgently disintegrate."
“Nothing is easier than self-deceit. For what each man wishes, that he also believes.” —Demosthenes
"Do not worry; cultivate the habit of being happy." —Samael Aun Weor
"Do not worry; cultivate the habit of being happy." —Samael Aun Weor
Accepted Answer
You have a wonderful opportunity to observe the egos hurt by this event. Do not waste it by being identified with them. Meditate as much as you can on the many subjective qualities of those egos, and eliminate them so you do not have to suffer this way again.
"...if we take advantage of the critical moments, of the more unpleasant situations, the most adverse instances, we shall then discover, if we are alert, our outstanding defects, the “I’s” that we must urgently disintegrate."
"...if we take advantage of the critical moments, of the more unpleasant situations, the most adverse instances, we shall then discover, if we are alert, our outstanding defects, the “I’s” that we must urgently disintegrate."
“Nothing is easier than self-deceit. For what each man wishes, that he also believes.” —Demosthenes
"Do not worry; cultivate the habit of being happy." —Samael Aun Weor
"Do not worry; cultivate the habit of being happy." —Samael Aun Weor
Can we still take advantage of these experiences if they have happened in the past yet we didn't quite meditate on them then?
Can we still take advantage of these experiences if they have happened in the past yet we didn't quite meditate on them then?
Yes, ultimately we have to do that for all of our past existences.............
However, in the beginning, we should be focused on the egos that are present in our daily life.
“Nothing is easier than self-deceit. For what each man wishes, that he also believes.” —Demosthenes
"Do not worry; cultivate the habit of being happy." —Samael Aun Weor
"Do not worry; cultivate the habit of being happy." —Samael Aun Weor
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