If you were truly no longer lustful, then you would not attract lustful women, nor would you be attracted to lustful women.
As it is is stated in the Holy Qur’an:
Women impure are for men impure, and men impure for women impure and women of purity are for men of purity, and men of purity are for women of purity.
It is most often the case that we carry within us all the defects that we find in others.