my son will be born in 4 weeks and I’m thankful I’ll be able to practice the maithuna pretty soon. Although I know I have to wait 40 more days after he’s born to start practicing it, but I’ve been thinking: since 2 people become one in sex does this mean we both have to choose who’s defect to eliminate, or do I focus on my own defect and my wife on her own defect individually?
I heard from someone that when sexually united, as 2 people become one this “one” should work in unison towards the same thing, so if it’s towards the annihilation of an ego it should be towards the ego of either the man or the woman one day and the next day it could be of the other one. I actually heard this from someone teaching gnosis. Although, then I thought but everyone has their own individual Divine Mother. I know sometimes we can make mistakes. Either way I’d just like to see what the instructors here say. Thank you for your answers.