I have been studying Gnosticism for about a year now, and practicing chastity with much success. The problem is that my mate of almost two years is very anxious to have a child, and at the age where she hears her biological alarm clock going off (nearing 40). She is not against my studies of Gnosticism, however, she feels she should be impregnated first, then I should be free to practice the Arcanum AZF as I so desire. I do respect her point of view, having been aware of her wishes from the start, but I am now in a quandary because of having learned of the consequences of fornication. This has led to unresolved tensions in the relationship. How can this dilemma be resolved?