Break ups
I'm not sure if I did the right move or not.
I liked her and had a great time with her but feel like something was missing because, in my past relationships, I fell in love faster.
I'm afraid that I won't fall in love. I thought a year was long enough, so if two years past and I still don't - I feel like she could've used that time to heal and possibly find someone who can truly love her the way she deserves.
She says I didn't give it a chance, and that it was too soon... but is a year too soon? If it is, then like I said before, I'm just afraid of it reaching 2 years and feeling the same...
She had past experiences with getting hurt and cheated on - she feels like no one will ever love her the way she deserves, that something is wrong with her - but any guy will be lucky to have her. It just didn't really work out for us. I wish nothing but the best for her.
I started feeling this way around the 6 months and back then I felt like it was too soon, so I gave it more time and here I am. It's unfortunate because she's a great person and it sucks that I didn't feel the same way - she felt like I was the one for her.
I've been hurt several times that I feel like I don't get hurt easily and I also meditate so it helps to get those racing thoughts that I had before but if I look at pictures of her, I will start to cry and go to that place... A part of me feels like a bad person for letting it go this long... but I tried yet she says I didn't...
Did I make the right decision of moving on?
I liked her and had a great time with her but feel like something was missing because, in my past relationships, I fell in love faster.
I'm afraid that I won't fall in love. I thought a year was long enough, so if two years past and I still don't - I feel like she could've used that time to heal and possibly find someone who can truly love her the way she deserves.
She says I didn't give it a chance, and that it was too soon... but is a year too soon? If it is, then like I said before, I'm just afraid of it reaching 2 years and feeling the same...
She had past experiences with getting hurt and cheated on - she feels like no one will ever love her the way she deserves, that something is wrong with her - but any guy will be lucky to have her. It just didn't really work out for us. I wish nothing but the best for her.
I started feeling this way around the 6 months and back then I felt like it was too soon, so I gave it more time and here I am. It's unfortunate because she's a great person and it sucks that I didn't feel the same way - she felt like I was the one for her.
I've been hurt several times that I feel like I don't get hurt easily and I also meditate so it helps to get those racing thoughts that I had before but if I look at pictures of her, I will start to cry and go to that place... A part of me feels like a bad person for letting it go this long... but I tried yet she says I didn't...
Did I make the right decision of moving on?
Only your Being can answer that in meditation and in dreams.
Contemplate the words of Samael Aun Weor below!
Contemplate the words of Samael Aun Weor below!
For thirty years I sought God. But when I looked carefully I found that in reality God was the seeker and I the sought. -Bayazid al-Bastami
Only your Being can answer that in meditation and in dreams.
Contemplate the words of Samael Aun Weor below!
Contemplate the words of Samael Aun Weor below!
For thirty years I sought God. But when I looked carefully I found that in reality God was the seeker and I the sought. -Bayazid al-Bastami
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