Wednesday, 03 January 2018
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I'm not sure if I did the right move or not.

I liked her and had a great time with her but feel like something was missing because, in my past relationships, I fell in love faster.

I'm afraid that I won't fall in love. I thought a year was long enough, so if two years past and I still don't - I feel like she could've used that time to heal and possibly find someone who can truly love her the way she deserves.

She says I didn't give it a chance, and that it was too soon... but is a year too soon? If it is, then like I said before, I'm just afraid of it reaching 2 years and feeling the same...

She had past experiences with getting hurt and cheated on - she feels like no one will ever love her the way she deserves, that something is wrong with her - but any guy will be lucky to have her. It just didn't really work out for us. I wish nothing but the best for her.

I started feeling this way around the 6 months and back then I felt like it was too soon, so I gave it more time and here I am. It's unfortunate because she's a great person and it sucks that I didn't feel the same way - she felt like I was the one for her.

I've been hurt several times that I feel like I don't get hurt easily and I also meditate so it helps to get those racing thoughts that I had before but if I look at pictures of her, I will start to cry and go to that place... A part of me feels like a bad person for letting it go this long... but I tried yet she says I didn't...

Did I make the right decision of moving on?
4 years ago
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#15809
Accepted Answer
Only your Being can answer that in meditation and in dreams.

Contemplate the words of Samael Aun Weor below!

For thirty years I sought God. But when I looked carefully I found that in reality God was the seeker and I the sought. -Bayazid al-Bastami

4 years ago
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#15809
Accepted Answer
Only your Being can answer that in meditation and in dreams.

Contemplate the words of Samael Aun Weor below!

For thirty years I sought God. But when I looked carefully I found that in reality God was the seeker and I the sought. -Bayazid al-Bastami

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