I met a young woman in my dream last night who exuded a powerful feeling of feminine compassion which was powerfully attractive to me. In the dream I was cold and laying alone in a bed and she came and brought a blanket and spread it over me. I was uncomfortable about the way my sexual centre awakened in response her so I avoided talking to her and tried to hide my feelings. I sensed that this was not the right way to respond to such a woman. I also sensed that this was a kind of test because she asked me an unusual question which I was afraid to answer. I do not think she was trying to discharge my sexual energy because when I hesitated to answer the question she departed.
I feel that trying to suppress my emotions in response to this woman was not the right way to handle the situation. But if I met someone like that in the physical world I would be really afraid to be around her because the kind of emotions she stirred up inside of me were so powerful. I would be afraid that even if such a relationship didn't turn sexual it would still be inappropriate for married man.
My feeling afterwards was that the correct response to this situation would be to respond to her with love, but do so in a chaste way.
My question then, is about boundaries for relationships between people in the astral plane: in the astral plane, is it appropriate for a married person to have chaste relationships with people of the opposite gender that awaken powerful feelings of sexual attraction? Are the boundaries of appropriate levels of intimacy relaxed in the astral plane, compared tot eh physical plane?