<p>hello. what is the best way to do this? I do not know how to approach them except showing them a lecture perhaps or speaking of mindfulness. I know that i am of know help until i do the work myself. speaking about this with others is much like a chess game with your words.   also, my father recently had his prostate removed due to cancer. Is he able to still do the work? if not, is he doomed? what should i do?</p>