Each parent has to determine what is best for each child, and when.

Regarding gnostic communities, Samael Aun Weor said,

"Now the Yogi/Yogini of the new Aquarian Era live a life of intense activity within the cities, and they do not need to withdraw into the solitary forests, because we are initiating the new Aquarian Era. This era is of sociability, cooperation, and confraternity amongst all human beings without distinction of schools, races, sexes, castes, or religions."

This is how we are well-placed to serve those who suffer. By withdrawing into isolated communities, we also withdraw from the opportunity to serve humanity.