For me, it isn't clear yet when to distinguish between trauma and ego... I don't want to be impolite to my instructor, but I didn't understand the explanation I received.
I know 3 persons at least that have this problem. Well, I'll try to help(if I can) only one since the last 2 had the chance but... Long story short.
A relative of my boyfriend had a grandmother who died by cancer and also her mother had cancer which now is cured. This girl is now afraid of cancer and every time hears of it, is disturbed.
Should I use the help of the roses to heal her trauma, or she has an ego of fear?